MRS. SIRLS
Monday, January 26, 2009
DIRTY LITTLE THING
RIGHT NOW I'M FEELING LOWER THAN GUM ON THE BOTTOM OF A SHOE. I'M SUFFERING WITH A MORAL DELIMA. YOU SEE I HAVE ONE FRIEND DOWN HERE IN DALLAS AND JUST SO HAPPENS MY HUSBAND CANT STAND HER(go figure). LOTS OF HUSBANDS CANT STAND THIER WIVES FRIENDS BUT MINE HAS WENT SO FAR TO BAN HER FROM OUR HOUSE,CAR, AND EVEN OUR KIDS. WHAT HAS SHE DONE TO DESERVE SUCH BLATENT HATRED? WHEN ME AND MY HUSBAND HAD PROBLEMS SHE BECAME MY FRIEND TAKING ME TO CHURCH KEEPING ME POSITIVE THAT GOD WOULD MAKE A WAY FOR MY FAMILY TO BE REUNITED TAKING CARE OF MY KIDS WHEN I WAS KEPT FOR OBSERVATION IN THE HOSPITAL(had a spike in my bloodpressure when i was 9mths) OR WHEN I WAS IN THE HOSPITAL WITH MY TWO YEAR OLD HAD A FEBRIL SEIZURE.MY KIDS LOVE HER AND SHE'S THE ONLY FRIEND I HAVE DOWN HERE. SHE CRIED WHEN I TOLD HER THAT SHE COULD'NT BE AROUND MY KIDS ANYMORE. AND THIS MAKES IT ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO SEE MY FRIEND BECAUSE MY KIDS ARE WITH ME 24-7. IT S COLD AND RAINING TODAY AND IHAD TO TELL HER I COULDN'T GIVE HER A RIDE TO THE CORNER WHEN I WAS GOING THAT WAY TO PICK MY KIDS UP. I FEEL DIRTY AND WRONG BUT THE WISHES OF MY HUSBAND COMES FIRST. BUT, SHOULD THEY COME AT EXSPENCE OF MY MORALS? I CANNOT BETRAY MY HUSBANDS WISHES BUT I AM BETRAYING MYSELF BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT IM DOING IS WRONG. AND AS I WRITE THIS ENTRY MY FRIEND CALLED TO SAY SHE CAN'T BE MY FRIEND ANY MORE AND I DON'T BLAME HER. I WAS PUT IN A SIMULAR SITUATION AND DID THE SAME THING THAT SHE DID. BUT, IT HURTS SO BAD THAT I DO SOMEONE I CALLED FRIEND THE WAY I DID. WELL I GUESS MY HUSBAND WILL BE HAPPY. CAN YOU TELL ME HOW I COULD HAVE DONE ANYTHING DIFFERENTLY ? WAS THERE A WAY I COULD HAVE RESPECTED MY HUSBAND'S WISHES AND NOT HAVE BETRAYED MY FRIEND AND CRAPPED ON MY OWN MORALS?
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As hard as it was to do your friend that way,you did the right thing by respecting your husbad because that is what the Bible calls us to do. I think you could have told you friend the reason for your actions so that she understands the situation, and if she is a good friend, she will understand and not hold it against you.
The next step is to pray to God for guideance in this situation. Then you should talk to your husband to understand why he made the request. Show him in the Bible(John 13:34-35 i think) where Jesus commanded us to love one another and maybe even seek councel from your pastor. If he is a good husband, he will see your need for fellowship with christian sistahs and this problem should be resolved.
Until then Kim, you need to p.u.s.h. (pray until something happens.)
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